rea  http://www.prom-house.com/sexy-party-dresses-48-1.html , and when my son (now 12) was in preschool he had me paint both his finger- and toenails whenever I did mine.My nephew (3) does the same thing with his mom and with me.Neither one ever got negative feedback from preschool or church.As long as you don't walk in looking to make excuses, my experience is that nobody really cares.I agree that the father needs to stop projecting his own hang-ups on his happy son.Doesn't it depend on what the MIL's dress looked like?My mom got married in a very cool, dressy suit (not white) in a vintage '60s style with a knee-length skirt.She could have worn it to a wedding and people would have just thought it was a cool, vintage look.A: If the mother-in-law's wedding dress was a Jackie Kennedy-style pink suit, then it's a nonissue.I think we can safely assume the wedding dress being discussed here was a real wedding dress.is usually a great guy but he has quick and destructive temper flare-ups that have resulted in my calling the police.These are rather infrequent but enough to make me hold off the wedding till he gets counseling and possibly undergoes anger management.He says he feels bad after this happens and I am just pushing him into it.I say if he wants us to be together, he will be willing to get help so we can have a good chance at a future.What is your take on it?A: My take is that if you need the police to sort out your domestic disputes, you should get new domestic arrangements.is an abuser with violence and control problems, and apparently lacks insight about this.Of course it's the case that most abusers are not abusive all of the time.That would mean most victims would get out.It's easier to stay if, as in your case, you think you're with a great guy who is sometimes abusive.they aren't two separate people, and you can't just eliminate the dangerous guy.you do so by eliminating him from your life.Which is what I think you should do here.And if you are afraid of his reaction if you break up with him, then call the National Domestic Violence Hotline for help.Re: Another Dress at the Wedding: I had a friend show up to my wedding in her wedding dress.Everyone wondered why she was wearing that.But like you said, Prudie, it was clear to all the guests who was the bride that day.No big deal in the long run.My husband and I still laugh about it.A: Now that's a wedding attire story worth laughing at.As I've said many times, wacky relatives and friends just add entertainment value to these events.Emily Yoffe: Thanks, everyone.Talk to you next week.The groom is approaching 50, a silver-haired boss in the Chechen strongman s feared police force.The bride is 17  http://www.prom-house.com/short-party-dresses-49-1.html , a shy beauty reportedly devastated at the idea of wedding a man nearly three times her age.Many Russians expressed outrage over the nuptials, causing a firestorm in the media and putting Chechen leader Ramzan Kadyrov a close ally of Russian President Vladimir Putin on the defensive.The wedding went forward over the weekend anyway, the bride deathly pale and her voice barely audible as she agreed to marry Nazhud Guchigov, who reportedly was taking her as his second wife as allowed by Islamic, but not Russian, law.Kadyrov s chief of staff played the best man, clutching the bride by the elbow to control her every step, and Kadyrov himself danced a folk dance at the wedding reception.The scandal comes amid a tug-of-war between Kadyrov and Russian federal law enforcement, which escalated after the slaying of charismatic Russian opposition leader Boris Nemtsov.Kadyrov s defiance in shielding Chechen suspects in the killing has aggravated longstanding tensions between him and Russian security agencies.That creates a headache for Putin, left with the delicate task of moderating the conflict to avoid destabilizing the region.The tensions are unlikely to spark open hostilities or lead to Kadyrov s removal.But they reflect an 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pro-Russian rebels.Putin s patronage has allowed Kadyrov to effectively shed federal controls.He makes it clear he listens to the president and nobody else.And he has imposed some Islamic rules, overruling federal law, allowing men in Chechnya to take several wives and introducing a tight dress code for women.Lavish reconstruction projects along with Kadyrov s promotion of Islamic law and his rejection of federal controls have helped swell his popularity, enhancing stability.The Kremlin, in turn, has sheltered the Chechen leader from criticism over killings, abductions, torture and other abuses by his feared security forces.Federal police and security services have been all but invisible in Chechnya, unable to make a move without Kadyrov s permission.That has worried many, who say the much-touted order in Chechnya hinges on the Putin-Kadyrov relationship and could be upset quickly if it falls apart.Kadyrov s behaviour long has caused irritation, said Grigory Shvedov, editor-in-chief of the Caucasian Knot, an online news portal focusing on the Caucasus.RelatedLeonid Bershidsky: Canada's gold at hockey worlds the latest hitch in Vladimir Putin's plot for world .