In Yang Jiang birthday, People's Daily, CCTV News and other media are flocking official microblogging blessing, more like baby-like innocence as its text, "Today, 103 years of his life dust conceal her elegance, she is still the hustle and bustle a gentle agitation times solace. "that microblogging is forwarded thousands of times and has more than one thousand users a message blessing Yang Jiang happy birthday. Some scholars also Yoshihisa as the admirable predecessors. Peking University professor He Weifang Yang Jiang straight like "great", and in the micro-Bo said: "Everybody says that years of relentless, but the time where the old man seems to be stalled - Yang Jiang ...... is that most artists in one of wisdom bit, they know how to use fewer words to express more meaning. " Famous writer Zhang Defen also microblogging said, "Happy Birthday wish the elderly." As of press time, the relevant blessing Weibo has more than 400,000. This is in contrast to the one Mr. Yang Jiang is a low-key attitude. "The Complete Works of Yang Jiang," published direction reporters, Yang Jiang Su Hi my quiet, because too much before the relevant media reports, Yang Jiang and currently works Zebian have not interviewed. Man: life fame admitted to the hospital, "hide" Birthday Perhaps that can cause so much attention from all walks of life came with Yang Jiang's talent. Yang Jiang-born but life fame, for birthday and other things, especially bearish. Last year she was 102 years old birthday approaching, only a small text to read essays on each of his friends came to congratulate and non-discriminatory response:. "For me to eat a bowl of noodles on the line." Yang Jiang's 103 birthday flies placid. According to Legal Evening News reporter visited, Yang Jiang as early as a week ago, was admitted to the hospital - not physically ailing, not just for birthdays disturbed. According to relatives and friends left behind surnamed Wang, said these days the phone has been ringing off the hook, if the media called, Mr. Yang Jiang did not take, "old old, some ears back, and no effort to accept a large number of interviews, too much sympathy and concern for her is actually a burden. " Not long ago, the leadership of his alma mater, Tsinghua University, has visited Mr. Yang had door, and now there have also been sent to friends and family as Yang blessing, "some will write a letter sent home." Yang Jiang has its own 100th birthday in the comments: "I am a hundred years old, has come to the edge of life, I am unsure how far I can still go forward, life is involuntary, but I know I'm fast 'home 'and I have to wash the filth of this century stained, ready to go home. " Statesman: Gan for "servant under the stove," Qian was called "the most virtuous wife, the only woman." Yang Jiang quiet low-key man to accompany Qian indifferent state of mind through life, two "Romances" type of marriage is even more envy. Yang Jiang attended Tsinghua University, first met her in the eyes of Qian plain clothes, brow "Wei however show deep." Qian wrote to Yang Jiang, about the word hall meet. A meeting, his first words were: "I am not engaged." Yang Jiang A:. "I do not have a boyfriend," Since the two began emailing, "write more often, and one day an" until Yang Crimson feel out: "He went home holiday (me) a lot of time to calm down and sad, I feel bad, it is fall in love (falling in love) a ..." Yang Jiang at home in the hearts of the core of life. Since a marriage with Qian, Yang Jiang has been willing to be "under the kitchen servant," tirelessly housework. In dealing with all the household chores aside, Yang Jiang also amazing courage to protect her husband's manuscripts. 1945 in Shanghai, Yang Jiang in Japanese summoned her desperately to Qian, "Tan Yi Lu" possession of a good manuscript, to ensure the future success of the book's publication. Later, Yang Jiang read British biographer summarized the ideal marriage: Before "I saw her, never thought of getting married; I married her for decades and have never regretted marrying her; has not thought of marrying another woman. "Yang Jiang Qian hear it read to, Qian immediately replied," I like him, "Yang Jiang answer," I am too. "common experience of decades of wind and rain, Qian lifetime Yang Jiang has commented: "The most virtuous wife, the only woman." For the text: a hundred years had still been published pen stopped working "Collected Works" and "The Complete Works" Yang Jiang achievements in literature does not take talented said. In a way, the text is Mr. Yang Jiang can not give up the cause. In addition to writing, as proficient in English, French, Spanish, Yang Jiang has worked multiple translations of foreign classics, including "Don Quixote" is considered the best translation masterpiece, has so far issued a total of more than 70 ten thousand; while her early writing the script, "roses" are still staged. From academia involved so far, although hundred years old, but still Yang Jiang pen stopped working. Ten years ago, when everyone thought she was going censored, the 93-year-old daughter, Yang Jiang wish to complete written three decades of memories of a stormy life, "We Three", popular at home and abroad, reprint of more than one million books; 96-year-old philosophy into a book of essays, "walked the edge of life," Mr. Yang Jiang 102 last year coincided with the birthday, pooling Mr. Yang Jiang creation and translation of major works to date a total of about 2.5 million words, "Yang Jiang Collection" publishing market. At that time the publisher said that was not created by the termination of Mr. Yang Jiang, "Collected Works", "Mr. Yang Jiang said that as long as good health, she will write some memories of prose." In this year, revenue miss her husband and daughter Qian Qian Yuan poetry, "The Complete Works of Yang Jiang," scheduled for publication. Now Yang Jiang, in addition to finishing her husband's manuscripts, but also for his famous "bath" wrote a sequel to "take a bath after." It is understood that the new work scheduled for publication before her birthday, but for various reasons slightly delayed. Travel without a needle. This is our ancestors told us of an ancient truth: A man who is ready to go a very long way, we must easier to move forward. We say it is the truth, because everyone in this practice are recognized in life, there is no doubt accept this view. Not even with the best travel needles, let alone one thousand tons of gold. If you start with a heavy gold in a journey, then you have the risk may encounter, you will be exhausted first, second, you will be hacked (robbers). Whichever result, these gold for your journey only serve to undermine, rather than make you relaxed and happy. So ordinary journey, the journey of life also apply this truth? In life, the gold is beautiful and attractive substances. If we have this substance escort emotional road, whether we will be strong emotions and happiness? Carrying a golden road, really happy? (A) external standard gold male, back up some heavy Now many young female friends, they just entered the community, when entering the emotional hunting is such a dream: to find a wealthy, the official second-generation, or find a successful career man, and then has to find a bad executives! In short, done better to marry well, this idea now some young people's view of marriage is recognized. So, to find gold is to give a hard target man set himself when some friends mate. In the first half of 2010, the first female students in Guangzhou, Guangzhou Women's Federation organized the forum for the first time released "Red Book Values of female college students in Guangzhou." The results showed that female students are willing to marry wealthy, you would choose "potential shares" as a marriage. It was heavy shelling of friends, most of the men said, "The most hated marry wealthy girls." For this reason, the Internet set off a lot of lively discussion. From the psychological point of view, the concept of nothing mate criticism! We grew up doing "from the princess and the prince lived a happy life," the fairy tale dream in such a warm, beautiful fairy tale, we have gradually established their own view of life and love. However, with the growth and change with the times, people are quietly concept mate with the beating pulse of the community change. Men attacked the idea of such a young female mate choice is somewhat extreme, there is the feeling of sour grapes. Not because I am a woman, but because they ignore the nature of humanity while avoiding disadvantages. Among people in their lives, no matter what kind of event experience, do not give trouble on their own initiative, most of my friends would not say that I am willing to contradict themselves, what's wrong with what I choose, what is more likely to make their own What troubled me choose. If there is such a person and their rivalry, I think part of mental illness, need to do some counseling and cognitive adjustments. Most of my friends to choose life, is so that they can embark on a more pleasant and happy growth path. Similarly, treatment of the sexes emotional choice, we will comply with this while avoiding disadvantages nature. I remember when they were young, the older generation, the preferred object of love is our most lovely people - soldiers. At that time, the military is a symbol of honor, but also a guarantee stable life. Later in the parents' generation, the object of their choice workers, it is because in the early stages of economic development, high social status of workers in the relatively stable income peers. Later, the object chosen for intellectual people, it is because knowledge is power, and knowledge to change the fate of social consensus, so that the community respect for intellectuals reached a peak. And now is the economy, which in this economy and society, the economy is not only a measure of a lever of social development, but also a measure of whether a person is successful, if there is a standard capability of the surface. So, at this time, many of our young people will own eyes locked in the wealth creation myth gold male body, what is it worth thick non? Essentially, this and we look forward to their own predecessors marry a prestige and integrity of the military, and our parents expect that they can marry tough industrious workers, intellectuals profound connotation, is no different. This is the result of social development. However, from love and marriage cognitive perspective, but should give this idea poured a pot of cold water! Similarly, in the first half of 2010, Jiangsu TV's "You Are the One" program which has a look beautiful, tall punch has caused the girl, and the pitch of their confession of male guests a conversation sparked community for the "material girl" in a fan debate. Sentimental was a big boy (I personally think good condition) shy to tell their own longing for romantic love, he said, although he is now no BMW cars, but they have a bike, he was willing to ride with his beloved girl in a romantic evening walk, feel the sweetness of love. And was later dubbed the "material girl" head girl, with disdain, laughing attitude response: I think, or forget it. I still feel, sitting in the BMW car crying, laughing than sitting behind a bike, much better! His remark, universal shock. In June 30, 2010, the U.S. "Time" magazine published a striking position paper entitled "China's TV hit shows: for love or for money? "Article. Author Justin Bergman wrote that, for a handful of Chinese modern young women, love is all about numbers. Requiring suitors must have a sense of humor, handsome appearance, while they care about is whether the other side has a house, the size of the house, bank card money, of course, luxury cars better. At least, these are the recent Chinese TV dating show scene. These programs attracted the attention of millions of viewers, but also attracted ruthless shelling critics, these programs lead to negative criticism, non-traditional values prevalent in the Chinese city young people. That girl is a microcosm of China after 80 contemporary concept of love and values. I personally feel that this girl is not representative of the values of the contemporary 80 girls, love concept. In Wenchuan, Yushu rescue teams among the most active, courageous, that is after 80 young friends; in the workplace, the most hard working, white-collar workers who work hard, have mostly belonging to 80. So, to say this girl is representative of the 80, I believe, just because some people do not understand Chinese youth abroad. On the behavior of the girl who, whether she is to be famous, or for other purposes, it does not matter, it was her own choice, she will also pay those words a price. Let's just talk about the cognitive perspective this sentence mate revealed some social phenomena. Everyone knows that BMW expensive than the bike. I've seen the most expensive bike also happens to be the BMW brand, the price is 140,000 yuan, so expensive bikes are much cheaper than the BMW. From human nature while avoiding disadvantages, the hope still sitting conditional word BMW car, rather than on the bike, which was originally nothing wrong. However, please do not ignore SVO structure of this sentence. "I want to sit in the BMW car, rather than on the bike." "I would rather cry in a BMW, not sitting on the bike to laugh." These two words are essentially different. We can think of the first sentence of young people for their future have a better vision and have the mentality of avoiding disadvantages, but the second sentence means that we have to some seemingly better vision, and give up the right to life of happiness . This is exactly the moment a lot of friends in the choice of his own love attribution easy mistake to ignore the golden men brought us in the end is what! Person's energy is limited, you can not find a man, and dedication, and homely, all-powerful in their careers, but also for your gentle like water, and all the needs of a woman's emotions are so sensitive and respond just right, and only you have such a sensitive person. These personality traits are completely contrary not appear in the same person, or that the probability is very small. If there is such a person, we can say that he is not a man, but of God! After all, life is more than mortal, we encounter "God" or smaller chance, so we should clearly recognize what kind of life is their real needs. Many of my friends would say, I want to! Read the "Tangshan Earthquake" This movie does not? When the rescue of the people asked her mother, sister to brother, or to the time, my mother said: to be! But the truth is cruel, can only save one. In the case of desperation, the mother said: to save his brother. Sometimes in life we have to face the dilemma, how do you choose? A person, if you want to be successful career, is bound to put more effort, and this is where the old saying used to say: stage one minute, audience ten years. Not a lot of time and effort, people how to accumulate a wealth of experience and constantly improve their ability? Little good friend introduced her to a boyfriend, the other is a real estate company manager. Just know, I feel good small groan was missing a "diamond bachelor." The boyfriend is also very fond of their own, and shot a big party. Little good very happy! But over time, little good will find themselves falling in love in the air, and credit cards in life. Any appointment of two people for each activity, the other always told at the last minute good company still small meeting or still talk about the contract and the customer or site inspection is not over, and so on, and these grounds to cancel the appointment. Although every boyfriend will apologize for their actions, and sincerely so that small good holding their credit cards to go shopping outing, but little good for the well-being of this love disappear. Little good and this excellent gold male contacts the six months, two people really sit down to eat no more than five times, watching movies and a half times (see half, her boyfriend was recalled units), plans to play out countless but no one implemented. Little good from the beginning of grievances gradually become angry boyfriend every time she received a phone call from the activities will be canceled and each other angry, even crying. Boyfriend began to also coax a coax her, and finally gave up hope that little good can understand their aspirations. You know, in the man's work environment, competitive opportunities for promotion than once or twice a problem, but every minute of your demeanor slightly negligent or slack, there is likely to face very serious consequences. Fall behind, you want to get a stable and successful career, we need more investment and effort. The gold men in the past there have been a lot of good female lover, but without exception, all because they can not tolerate a person's love and abandon him. The sky will not fall for no reason a golden man, such a good man can become a "remnant people" is probably not because of your good luck! Want to find such an economic gold man, I'm afraid you have to sacrifice his dedication to the cause! In addition, I have received a very literary attainments had female friends advisory letter, the letter telling her distress. In her previous life, has been all alone until one like her in literature has a very profound understanding of the United States also have a good sensibility, her words and actions can be "minds think alike man "appears. She thanked God himself sent a "treasure brother." However, exchanges over a period of time, the "Lin Sister" found himself a woman who understands the heart of the "treasure brother," the woman does have a deep understanding of a woman's beauty also has a strong insight, because he put his heart around all sisters are impressed. And, he also true and realistic version of "Po brother", as the woman cherish endless. While the emotional gold men for their actions that day vowed to ground, said he did not have any misconduct, but to see his beloved man, eager not just her beauty and talent, but to each flower flowers are so favored estimated such a "bee" you have the heart to shoot him to death! In fact, the lady who encountered the "treasure brother" has nothing incomprehensible. If he is "Sando", just in front of you become a "treasure brother" in front of all the other women, do not you think 瘆 fast enough yet? First, he's considerate of your delicate emotional response requires a lot of practical experience as a background. Secondly, a person's personality is unity, there is no particular purpose is a great contrast between the behavior would not have appeared. If he is just such a person for your humorous, considerate, super sensibility, but you have to weigh, what this person is not up to no good attempt. In my own life experience, my family who honest humor, Mr. fat, though not for other flowers coveted, but he went out to play, and the other girls would tease a fun, Dagehaha Han! That's right, this is called a unified personality. Faced with such emotion gold male, you need to put the concerns of his ambiguous inadvertently may lead to the other sex. Also, the face of super filial gold male, perhaps always separated blood between you guys and his family! I know a famous photographer, the only requirement is that his mate: as long as this woman can satisfy all the requirements of my mom, my mom obey all thoughts, I mention BMW, bought her Colts can! At this time, you have to bear is probably at least two or more people, even men of the family to bear gold, tired? (B) The good man is a social wealth does not belong to you What kind of man we want? Good man! What is a good man? Career success, personality defect, noble character, filial piety, love of family, virtuous, the key is to love me, love me, love me and can only hurt me! Such men have? Yes, but he almost does not belong to a woman, he belongs to the community, belonging to more women. You know, people have several innate thing called human nature, original desire. Human nature is life down to exist. For substances such as greed and power, such as chemotaxis America (lust), then such lazy, indulgent, it is the people born have some personality traits. For the original human sex instinct, self-love, love for parents and children, love for friends, but also love for inanimate objects, such as works of art, personal love for the country, and even love for an abstract idea. We do not allow ourselves to release the unlimited human nature and the original desire, because we are living in the community environment, our world can not only himself, in the growth process, we will learn a variety of knowledge and skills through , so that their human nature to want to have control and raw, repressed, in order to better meet the basic requirements of human society. This is the people's self-fashioning. Since there is repression, there will be released. Humanity, the release of the original desire, usually occurs in people consider themselves safe environment, and that is their home interiors. How to release? Exposing your true self. In the more secure environment, so the more fully self-exposure. You look and you are in love with the perfect persona that in societies lover, or a real "person"? So, we are looking for "Prince Charming", do not look for any flaws one did not come back, because he had not yet released, is still in the process of self-repression. Looking for a full release in life has been completed self-repression redeemed people more secure. "Call for Love," which Wallace played that pretty policewoman, has been dedicated to waiting for his mate standards: to find a love like themselves, marital history clean and simple objects. Even in the life of the man did make her feel very good, but because the other side had had marital history, we can not make do agree. Similarly, in our real life, there are many such women friends. My girlfriends cousin, 31-year-old, a car magazine editor. She has had a boyfriend in college, two people love, love a really good school, but the face of the situation after graduation boyfriend to leave the city, two people love also come to an end. From that day onwards, cousin began the long wait for love to visit again. Ordinarily the cousin environment where not all gay, why would not delay her love? Cousin answer is very simple, because she did not love history to find a man, the only way a man would give her the feeling of love. During this period, cousin also experienced a few male friends never had love history, but she did not understand that the other side is not a style of wood knots, feather boy is reckless character. No wonder she will have such feelings, you know, coz in love, when she and her boyfriend are from shy to open, from immature to mature, grown man has to accompany her to a have a basic knowledge of the love and operating experience of state. She is now looking forward to that feeling, is not so much a Sentimental love, it is more in the mere purpose of generating the share exchanges along relaxation mode. For the love needed to cognitive biases, leading to the girlfriends cousin still stay in the "left women" ranks, she did not know until when. Thirties have not experienced love a man, who would want to ah! You know, from a psychological point of view, everyone in his youth, learned more than just cultural knowledge, it was the knowledge of interpersonal communication. Time of love, basically a practice of marriage. If you never had the experience of love, and how can in a competitive society, successfully harvested in a variety of complex factors that interfere with their love? I know a professor at the Communication University, freshmen in the first class, the professor said to the children: There are two things you need to do college first, expertise mastery; Second, at least talk about a love. Under the influence of Chinese thought, we are more willing to find an emotional history "clean" objects, and in many Western countries, young people are more inclined to find a "bad man", hoping to find a few paragraphs had experienced love, even marriage once experienced male friends. Actually, it is not difficult to discern, rather than allow themselves to be subject to accompany him to grow, it is better to find a man who had enough. When another have experienced the love, the real need is to know what kind of emotion, and then what kind of person, and then into marriage. For you, for he is the case. China has an old saying:. "Youth is not romantic, old age will indecent" This is a balance of human nature, people are always on their own experiences and expectations somewhat dissatisfied. A lot of love, marital discord reason, there is a part of psychology and related compensation. We should choose what kind of object it as a future candidate for marriage? We will discuss this topic in Chapter III alone. Just as we said, a good man belongs to the community, and when he returned to the family when it will expose themselves, and produce some of you are familiar with and look forward to the character and habits, but it does not prevent you find a good object, go into the sweet relations between the sexes. But, before you and him to establish such a relationship, to do the bear under his social persona that true self psychological preparation. Good man is social wealth is used to admire and worship, the real man is to live with them. (C) is that you let him stop, or he needs to stop You make him stop, or he needs to stop? On this point, many people enter a period of emotional beginning, have not thought about it carefully. When you are faced with a favorite object, what are you looking for the other side to stop the pace? The qualities make him stay down, capital is your competitive advantage. If this is not clear, it is easy to lose our advantage. Orange is a unit of HR supervisor, she lucky enough to find their own Prince Charming, experienced love, they entered the marriage. Not long had a lovely baby oranges, but the problem comes, career and life sometimes contradictory, especially for new mothers in the workplace is, after all, people's time and energy is limited. Orange and her husband's parents are in the field, on which the children of the elderly in their own home will not be assured, it is not entirely safe to nurse. So, Orange decided to resign to make a full-time wife. Orange kids grow up healthy day by day, but she found that she and her husband also from one day become estranged. Tacit understanding between two people has ceased to exist, the intimacy of two people has long become a memory. They came to my consulting center. When my husband and oranges to communicate, I found the crux of the problem: the man loves the woman disappeared. Orange's husband said his condition is very good, a lot of girls have been very fond of their own. Why choose oranges, because this woman who has a dedication to the cause, for the development of sensitive feelings. Astute bold personality, vigorous and resolute style of doing things, which made him appreciate. However, after becoming a full-time wife, oranges seemed a changed man. The topic of conversation all oranges have become so trivial, content exchange is also complicated, almost boring, every question oranges are hesitant, anything Zuobulezhu, all questions have to make their own decisions, and oranges become a performer, he felt very tired. When we fell in love and they will ignore their strengths qualities. In the end why this one will stop for you, if you do not have to figure out very clearly, it is possible to commit mistakes oranges, naively thought that he loved you, love you all, and not because you and others have very big difference, he was attracted to you because you are that character. If we do not figure out what the men in the end fall in love, when we simply give up their advantage, they are likely to attract other people who find that their qualities. In addition, there is a situation when we are faced with a favorite object, especially when he became a foregone conclusion when you, please be careful not to get carried away, do not really think they have a lot of excellent place than other women. You know, people in the class together, be able to carry out exchanges and talented man who probably will not go bad. So you let him stop just a small part of the reason, more because he had a desire to find a harbor dock down. With this basic knowledge, we will avoid the risk of a fall: the harbor scenery while falling into the same tiresome. How to maintain the harbor scenery, constantly adding new infrastructure to avoid luxury ship that docked ship set sail again? Maybe you have some willing, what I would not rely on his charm? Why not, alone, you find a golden male. A very successful business man character we can probably see, basically have the following characteristics: Although many problems seemingly respectful comments ladies, but basically just stay in "soliciting" in the process, we call this character the higher self (just trust their own judgment and experience). For the very attentive staff and people close to relatively harsh. They have a good psychological reasons to ask you this, is that they want people to their side surrounded, the people closest to his choice, as he generally are good. Because you are out of his choice, so you can not have flaws, such behavior traits we think are perfect personality. Due to the long struggle in the sea which, to develop a decisive, Shuoyibuer mode of thinking and behavior, that this man strong authority. The reason a high self-respect, the perfect personality, a strong gold authoritative male, female partners of their choice purpose is really not so romantic and sophisticated, a large part of women's choice of male friends is very simple, it is because they need family , or because they need the child, this is a step they achieve perfect self. I say this without any intention to belittle these golden men. Everyone needs to marriage are different motives, as will all dedicated to the cause of men, there is no motivation for such a marriage problem. But, I especially want to tell the "lucky" to experience these men's female friends, do not expect to find love, romance, sweet in such a marriage. Perhaps, before he married, or married at the beginning there will be some warmth, after all, a man and a woman will always have a combination of emotion-based. But with the passage of time, his energy will still return to his familiar "on track" were to go. At that time, you probably have a lot of loss, aggrieved. When you become a reason he parked down the initiative of your relationship in your hands slightly more; when he just wants to have a harbor anchored down, he had a lot of control over. The first face of a situation, female friends to examine their strengths, do not ignore the advantages of protection. The face of the second condition, on to better consolidate their position maintained through emotions of other family members, multi-channel sources to create their own happiness, such as: children, family, girlfriends, and so on. Do more to make you feel valuable things, such as: to continue to work, to participate in public welfare undertakings, male family members to be recognized, and so on. (D) carrying gold on the road a little tired! Find a golden man really can make yourself quick access to great wealth of material living conditions, but also to have to feel self-worth than other women. However, behind this, you have to bear, sacrifice, forbear, I am afraid you are not the time to talk with friends. To face the emotional object selection, please do not just put their sights on his physical assets, do not just stare at your attention to a problem, you know, when our eyes have only one note point, it will likely forming a paranoid state of attention, it is easy to overlook a cheap lebrons 2014 lebrons 10 nike free runs nike 5.0 sale nike free runs 5.0 nike free 4.0 nike free 2.0 cheap nike lebrons shoes nike jordan shoes cheap nike shoes nike free runs 3 tiffany cheap lebrons 10 cheap lebrons shoes cheap nike shox nike free cheap cheap lebrons 11 cheap lebrons 11 shoes ebay cheap lebrons wholesale jordan shoes nike free runs 3 nike runs usa sale cheap nike free runs cheap nike free runs 2 new nike free sale cheap free runs lot of other own needs, or ignore each other and some of the obvious, and in the relations between the sexes should not ignore the problem. |
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